What’s right and what’s wrong....this was the question that was going on in my watermelon sized head when i was thinking about a topic for writing my first blog.
What can be a better topic than giving my take on why we think things are either right/wrong, when the same thing might be the absolute opposite for a different person's view.Perspectives!!!!!
Reading the above lines many of you might think what a wrong subject he has chosen for a start. That is where the concept of individual perspectives comes into the picture.
The world is place where people with different perspectives run in a race to prove each other wrong.
I wonder why all of us eating almost same things and living in the same place have different perspectives and conclusions. Why can’t we all have a same perspective?????
In any issue or matter for instance there will be only one truth, still we have so many contradictions, conclusions, opinions.
Is it because we are afraid to face the ultimate truth and we are daunted that our very knowledge that we use to land at our conclusion is at stake and we start defending our perspective even if that perspective of ours is questionable in a lot of ways .A person hangs to his opinion bull headedly. I found that people always get influenced by people who are good conversationalist’s who can brainwash you to accept their perspective so that you don’t have any say. Just have a blind perspective.we even go to the far extent of calling the other person a demon for having another perspectives; this happens mostly in religious matters.
We cannot accept other opinions for the very simple fact that we don’t like to see another person having an equal opinion/contra opinion, which might be equally powerful and true. We don’t like to listen to the other person because we don’t like to be told things as we don’t like and don’t accept things that we can’t digest. Our peanut sized brains in watermelon sized heads are always thinking to prove some one wrong rather than analysing our opinion, if we go ahead in thinking am i right then we might have a better world with less debates, divorces and important of all less wars.
People who like to tell the world, whats right/wrong seldom think what’s right/wrong in them. They sincerely don’t have a perspective about themselves. They just go ahead with the science they believe in and if something comes in their way they start pulling their debate skills and start a war of words.
I find most of the debates most disturbing, rather than analysing things they start analysing the other persons opinion and think in the way so that they can prove the other opinion wrong.
Having perspectives is healthy defending them to prove yourself right is dangerous.
Listening to opinions always helps in mental growth of a human being according to my Perspective.
Please do comment on my opinion about opinions.